Tweet advice

I just read another advice column from a dad to his kids and grandkids. All good stuff, but just went on and on, and I thought way to wordy and detailed for today's generations. So I wrote my advice using Twitter constraints: has to be 140 characters or less. Here you go, at 140 characters. Enjoy! 

Dream big, go big 

Kind is better than clever 

Choose wisely and persevere 

God knows and cares 

Never stop learning 

Take responsibility 

Trust but verify 

Run at life 

Smile

For Jack

In a talk a few years ago, President Eyring talks about child and parent parting:
"In time, when the child is away from home and family, prayer can provide the shield of protection the parent will want so much for them to have. Parting can be hard, particularly when the parent and the child know that they may not see each other for a long time. I had that experience with my father. We parted on a street corner in New York City. He had come there for his work. I was there on my way to another place. We both knew that I probably would never return to live with my parents under the same roof again.

It was a sunny day, around noontime, the streets crowded with cars and pedestrians. On that particular corner there was a traffic light which stopped the cars and the people in all directions for a few minutes. The light changed to red; the cars stopped. The crowd of pedestrians hurried off the curbs, moving every way, including diagonally, across the intersection.

The time had come for parting, and I started across the street. I stopped almost in the center, with people rushing by me. I turned to look back. Instead of moving off in the crowd, my father was still standing on the corner looking at me. To me he seemed lonely and perhaps a little sad. I wanted to go back to him, but I realized the light would change and so I turned and hurried on.

Years later I talked to him about that moment. He told me that I had misread his face. He said he was not sad; he was concerned. He had seen me look back, as if I were a little boy, uncertain and looking for assurance. He told me in those later years that the thought in his mind had been: Will he be all right? Have I taught him enough? Is he prepared for whatever may lie ahead?

There were more than thoughts in his mind. I knew from having watched him that he had feelings in his heart. He yearned for me to be protected, to be safe. I had heard and felt that yearning in his prayers, and even more in the prayers of my mother, for all the years I had lived with them. I had learned from that, and I remembered."

Maybe some other time I'll give advice, but right now I just want to say, hooray for your adventure at USU, and God bless you, now and forever. Our prayers are about you and with you, now and forever.

Love,

Dad

Read the rest of Pres. Eyring's talk